Bullying is, obviously, a problem in our nation’s schools. Sometimes it leads to suicides or lawsuits, and that ends up making headlines. Bullying can also coast under the radar of adults in the form of social ostracizing, taunting and catty postings on the internet, says Dana Smith, member of the St. Lawrence-Lewis Board of Cooperative Educational Services and a member of the board of directors of the New York State School Boards Association, for the Washington Post. Bullying can and does happen in cafeterias, auditoriums, gymnasiums and school recreation areas…